Relational Renew - Growing A Spiritually Mature Church
Eph 4:14 (PH), 1 Cor. 12:11 (NIV), James 3:17-18 (CEV), Romans 8:29 (nIV), 1 Peter 5:2 Amp), Pr. 27:23 (NIV), Matt 7:17-20 (NIV) , John 15:8 (NLT)
8 Laws of Spiritual Growth
1. Spiritual Growth is Incarnational
Gal 2:20 (NIV)
1 Cor 3:6 (NIV)
Phil. 2:12-13 (NIV)
Fact: Spiritual Growth is Both
2. Spiritual Growth is Intentional
a. Myth: Growth is Automatic
b. Reality: We Grow By Making Commitments
Move people from - Come & See to Come & Die - It’s a process
Tools we use:
- Weekly Commitment Cards
- Covenants - Neh. 9:38-10:1
- Sermon Notes
- Incresses attention
- Retention
- Participation
- Covers more material
- Review stuff for years to come
- Basic for SG discussion
- Use multiple translations
- Unbelievers Don’t Bring Bibles.
2. Incaremtental
Myth: growth is Instant
Reality: We grow through a Step-by-Step Process
4 Spiritual Growth is Personal
Reality: We Grow According to our S.H.A.P.E.
Tools:
- Shape Interview
- Spiritual Health Assessment 2 Cor 13:5 (NRSV)
- Prayer Garden
5. Spiritual Growth is Habitual
Reality: We Grow By developing Good Habits (Spiritual Disciplines)
Tools:
- Assign Homework – Jesus, “Now, Go and Do Likewise” Be doers of the Word…
- Purpose Driven Life Journal
- Drive Time Devotions – podcasts
- Email Devotional
- Guide to Fasting
- Help people develop habits not attend more meetings.
6. Spiritual Growth is Relational/Communal
Myth: Can Attain Maturity by Yourself
Reality: we only grow in community – Heb 10:24-25
Tools
1. Small Groups
2. Spiritual Coaches
3. Retreats
Heb. 5:12 (NIV)
6 Spiritual Growth is Multi-Dimensional
Myth: Maturity is measured by your Bible knowledge
Titus 2:1 (GW)
Reality: It takes all Five Purposes to grow
- Warmer through fellowship
- Deeper through discipleship
- Stronger through worship
- Broader through ministry
- Larger through mission
James 1:27
8. Spiritual Growth is Seasonal
Gen 8:22 (NLT)
Reality: We Grow and we Consolidate – We Grow in Spirts
Push the people and then back off and give them space – We call the growth seasons campaigns. We have six weeks because it takes about six weeks to develop a habit.
The Tools:
- I want to grow
- I love my church
- Millennial Members
- Building for Life
- 40 Days of : Community, Faith, Purpose, Love, Mission, Peace
- Five Reinforcements:
- Hear it
- Read it
- Talk about it
- Memorize a Verse
James 15:16 (NIV)

